đ Dear Rising Seniors: Itâs Time to Own Your Story
You made it. Senior year is on the horizon.
Right now, youâre probably hearing a lot of buzzwords: Common App, supplemental essays, test scores, personal statement. Maybe youâre excited. Maybe youâre stressed. Maybe youâre wondering how youâre supposed to write about yourself when you still feel like youâre figuring out who you are.
Thatâs okay. đ
The truth is, no one has it all figured out. But what sets strong college applicants apart isnât having the âperfectâ resumeâitâs knowing how to tell their story with honesty, clarity, and heart.
And thatâs something you can start doing now.
đȘ Step 1: Get to Know Yourself
Before you write essays or pick schools, take a step back. Youâve lived 17 or 18 years of lifeâwhat have you learned?
Ask yourself:
What experiences have shaped me the most?
What challenges have I faced, and how did I respond?
When do I feel most alive or most like myself?
What do I care aboutâdeeply?
You donât need a grand achievement to write a strong application. You just need reflection. A quiet conversation with yourself can be more valuable than hours spent Googling âhow to get into ___ University.â
đ Step 2: Start Thinking in Stories, Not Just Stats
Admissions officers donât just want to know what you did. They want to know why it mattered.
Instead of saying, âI volunteered at a hospital,â think about the story behind it:
What drew you to it?
What surprised you?
How did it change you?
Hereâs a secret: the most memorable essays often come from small, personal moments. A late-night talk with a sibling. A failed audition. A conversation that stuck with you. Those are the moments that reveal your characterâand thatâs what colleges want to see.
Step 3: Summer Moves That Pay Off
You donât have to finish everything this summer, but if you take a few small steps now, your future self will thank you.
âïž Summer Checklist:
Make a résumé or brag sheet. It helps with applications and letters of rec.
Brainstorm personal statement ideasâjust jot notes, no pressure to write yet.
Research 3â5 colleges. Look past rankingsâwhat actually excites you?
Draft a calendar with deadlines (apps, FAFSA, scholarships, etc.)
Ask 1â2 teachers if theyâd be open to writing a recommendation this fall.
âïž Step 4: When You Start Writing âŠ
Keep these tips in mind:
Be real, not impressive. Vulnerability is more powerful than perfection.
Details matter. âI stayed up late cryingâ says more than âI was upset.â
Show, donât tell. Instead of âIâm a leader,â describe the moment you led.
Read it aloud. If it doesnât sound like you, revise until it does.
This isnât an English essay. This is your chance to be known.
College apps arenât just about getting into a school. Theyâre about getting to know you. What you value. What youâve learned. What you hope to become.
So donât stress if you donât have a dream school or a 10-year plan. Donât compare your story to someone elseâs. Just start with where you areâand own it.
Because the best applications? They arenât built on trophies. Theyâre built on truth.
Youâve got a story. Tell it well. đȘ